KimberlyCaristi
Written by Kimberly Caristi
Life is hard for Sandra. You wouldn't know it because she doesn't let the struggles she has define her. She has a smart and level head on her shoulders until Dante comes along and tries to make her think with her heart instead of her head
Sitting on a plane with an almost one-year-old on her lap made Sandra nervous. How was she going to manage a day of traveling with Carinu? She thought she had enough food and toys to keep him busy when he wasn’t sleeping. Who knew what would keep a busy one year old occupied on his first trip out of their small town? They rarely got in a car so she wondered if he would sleep in his new car seat. The woman seated on the other side of his car seat seemed to be tickled pink entertaining him. Carinu was used to strangers so he was flirting with her and enjoying the attention he was receiving.
Sandra’s life was made of one change after another. She was getting tired of having to readjust her life. Why couldn’t she have a "normal” life? Poor Carinu has had such a sad beginning and to be saddled with a name like Carinu in a small midwestern town, his life was going to be a challenge. Children are mean, Sandra knew that through her own experience. Having a name that children could make fun of was a noose around your neck. Sandra vowed Carinu wouldn’t have her life. She would make sure of that.
A New Experience
She thought she was crazy taking on this challenge, but she had made a promise and she had put it off long enough. She assumed the money was coming from his father but there was only a bank’s name on the checks. She needed whoever it was to stop sending it. Carinu and her were doing well enough on their own.
The woman sitting next to Carinu said, “Excuse me but we are about to take off. Do you have something for your baby to suck on?”
Flustered, I said, “Oh, Mrs. Miller told me to make sure he had his pacifier. Thank you for reminding me. I have never flown before and my head is elsewhere.” Sandra dug in his baby bag and pulled out the pacifier. Carinu grabbed it with his chubby little hand quickly and stuck it in his mouth. She had been trying to wean him of his fi, as he called it. Sandra was worried about his teeth. They were a challenge breaking through his gums so she didn’t want to cause anything to go wrong with his teeth now that they were little buds of white. They were adorable. Mrs. Miller told me not to take the pacifier totally away until after their trip to Italy. He hadn’t made a fuss being put into his car seat. That action made Sandra have one less thing to worry about. Everything was new to Carinu so he was being entertained just looking around.
Leshay introduced herself. It was easy talking to her. She was very motherly and pulled out my whole life story on our flight to New York.
Lenape, Indiana
“Hi, I am Sandra Penny.” That was the only thing I wished I could change out of my young life. Kids were mean when they teased me about my last name. I didn’t have much, so with a last name like Penny they would either joke that I didn’t have two pennies to rub together, or they would find a penny and give it to me telling me now I had a penny to my name.
I have no idea what my dad’s name was and I didn’t care unless he had a really cool name. My mom had followed him here with the promise of marriage as soon as he made it big. As soon as he found out my mom was pregnant with me, he left for some cigarettes and never returned. I thought if he didn’t care about us enough to stick around, he wasn’t worth my time to wonder about him.
My mom quickly found a job at an insurance company as a secretary when she had moved to Lenape. When she realized that he wasn’t coming back she told herself she could raise me on her own. Anytime I would ask about my family my mom would say we were family enough and didn’t need anyone.
Once when I was ten, she did admit that this small town of Lenape, Indiana was not enough for my father. The town was not the prettiest place in Indiana, but it was all I ever needed. My mom made sure I felt loved and not alone. On payday we would go to Sanders’ diner three blocks away from our house for a treat. The minute you walked into the diner, the first thing you smelled was cinnamon and vanilla…the smell of cinnamon rolls which had to be their big seller. Nothing smells better in my opinion. If nothing came up that cost money during the month, we would have a real meal there. Mr. and Mrs. Sanders were so sweet to us. On those occasions when we had dinner, they would give us a free dessert.
Mr. Sanders often joked that he needed help and looked forward to the day when I would be able to work for them. I always asked, “Would Mrs. Sanders show me how to make those cinnamon rolls then?”
One day Mrs. Sanders said, “You know when you are big enough to come here on your own, I will teach you how to make the cinnamon rolls.”
I jumped up and with my hands in the praying position, I said, “Do you pinky promise?” My mom and I would always make pinky promises. My mother usually kept those promises. I knew sometimes I had asked too much and before my mom had to break the promise, I would say I didn’t want it anymore. I wasn’t always that good about realizing what our situation was. As time passed, I noticed how worried my mom was when she paid our bills. I didn’t want to add to her burden, so I stopped asking for things that cost money. Truth be told, we were pretty good at having fun without spending money.
We started the tradition of going to the library on weekends after Mr. and Mrs. Sanders would ask me what I was reading when we visited. When we got home, we would curl up on the couch together and read our book. When we went back to Sanders, I would tell them all about the book I had picked out at the library. They would ask me questions that made me think. Mom and I were falling in love with the Sanders more each time we saw them. How could we not? They were the nicest people and made mom and me feel like we mattered. Sad to say no one else made us feel that way.
My mom’s boss was the worst. Mr. Malcom treated my mom with so much disdain. When I would have to go there if we had a day off from school, he treated me like I was the stupidest child he knew. I was scared of him. He was bald with these big bushy eyebrows that almost connected. The way that he looked at me made me so nervous he would make me stutter when he asked me a question. When he came to our house my mom would tell me to go to my room and lock the door. That didn’t help my being scared of him. Sometimes he would hit my mom while he was there. It was hard for me not to come out and yell at him but my mom made me pinky promise that I wouldn’t come out.
When I got older, I asked my mom why she didn’t work somewhere else. Her reply was always the same. “Nobody would want to hire me. I don’t have an education.” That conversation would lead us into talking about me going to college and getting an education so I didn’t have to work with a Mr. Malcom type.
Truthfully before I was old enough to legally work Mr. Sanders hired me to bus tables and do light cleaning. It was the highlight of my day. I loved school but going to Sanders I loved the attention of Mr. and Mrs. Sanders. The clientele of the diner were so nice too. They were mainly college people, administrators, professors and students and such a variety of colors and races. I cherished the days that I got to be at the diner. Everyone was welcomed and everyone got along. I couldn’t wait until I got to go to the university so I could belong to something besides my small world; a little home, a couple of friends, and a mom who loved me dearly.
My mom loved to give me hugs when I came home from work. “I love you smelling like cinnamon and vanilla. It’s so much better than smelling like copier ink and paper.” She would pull me in and take a deep breath. She hugged me all the time but on workdays she would hold onto me longer. I loved it.
I wanted more for my mom than just work and the little life she led. She didn’t get to go to Sanders and listen to people talking about everything in the world. I overheard people talking about where they lived in the world or where they traveled for business. I kept a pad of paper in my pocket and would write down the places I heard about, then I would go to the library to learn all about them. I found it so interesting when I heard about politics and not in the way you do on television. Real debates that were interesting and there were no fights. Once I heard a couple of people talking about the sculptures at the art gallery on campus. I made sure that would be our next trip with my mom. I just had to see what they were talking about. My mom loved walking through the art museum. We would talk about how we would feel if we were walking in a particular painting. It became our favorite game to play and when I started adding money to our income we could visit more often. The museum was free. I had added enough money to our household that my mom didn’t have to bring work home and Mr. Malcom didn’t visit us as often.
I started helping manage the house so my mom and I would have more free time when I was in middle school. I would get books at the library to help me know how to clean, cook and organize our little life. We shopped at thrift stores to find bargains galore. My mom made friends with one of the workers at our favorite place to shop and she would call my mom when a particular woman would drop off her business clothes so my mom could get something beautiful to wear. Mom worked very hard to keep them looking lovely. Even though they were dry clean only, mom washed them very carefully and pressed them on her own. Once we even got a new couch for my mom to sleep on. We couldn’t figure out why someone would throw away such a beautiful couch. I knew my mom was sleeping better when she didn’t make such awful sounds when she got up in the morning.
When I was old enough to work as a waitress I was in heaven. When I got my first paycheck, I took the bus to the store to buy paint. Our house was in need of painting in the worst way. I learned how to prep the walls, apply the paint and how to clean up or better yet make sure I didn’t make a mess while painting. My mom made sure that I learned about that first. I started with painting the family room. I thought my mom deserved to have her room painted first. She needed to feel better about our place. Mom would make comments all the time about how she wished that our house were nicer. I always commented that we didn’t need anything more than what we had.
We had already pulled the carpet out of the house a couple years ago when my mom came home from work all mad. The stain in the middle of the carpet that had been there all the time I could remember pissed her off. She pulled back the corner of the carpet and saw we had hardwood underneath it. She had me pull all the furniture into the kitchen while she got busy pulling out the carpet. When we finished the family room we started in my bedroom. Boy was it dusty in there. Mom made us wear scarves while we did it. I was glad it wasn’t in the middle of summer or the yarn from our winter scarves would have been unbearable. We washed down the walls and the floor when we were done. It looked like we had a whole new place. Yes, the floors needed more work but it made the place look bigger somehow. The next paycheck mom bought stuff to rejuvenate the floors to their former glory. That was how I got the idea that when I had enough money to buy paint I would.
I got pretty handy taking care of the house. It impressed my mom. I was getting so good my mom thought we were more like partners instead of mom and daughter. I was preparing myself to take over everything and I didn’t know it. I knew my mom was moving slower my senior year of high school. She wasn’t that old but I could tell something was wrong. A couple of times I took her to work because she thought I should have the clunker that we called our “car.” We had pooled our money for the last couple of years to buy a used car. My mom thought I should learn to drive and you need your own car to do that. Usually, my mom would walk to work but that year she asked if I minded if she drove.
My mom’s last day of work I went to pick her up and I had to help her out to the car. I hated that Mr. Malcom made fun of her, “If your worthless mother doesn’t shape up, I am going to have to fire her.” I couldn’t say anything. My mom just mumbled she was sorry. I wanted my mom to go to the doctor and she said they couldn’t help her. While I made her a bowl of chicken soup, we argued about it. She pinky swore that if she didn’t feel better in the morning, she would go see a doctor. When I got up in the morning she was gone. I tried desperately to wake her. It took a minute of shaking her before I gave up and laid my head on her stomach and cried. Finally, I ran down to Sanders, instantly they knew something was wrong. Mrs. Sanders came back with me while Mr. Sanders called 911.
It was a sad goodbye. Everyone at Sanders pitched in for the burial. The day of the funeral Mr. and Mrs. Sanders stayed for dinner. There was a knock at the front door and Mr. Sanders brought in Mr. Malcom, he came by to deliver a check. As one of my mom’s perks for working for him he gave her a small life insurance policy. He was a sleaze ball but he was nice enough to give me the policy money. He tried to tell me I should take my mom’s place at his office and Mr. Sanders happily pushed him out the door telling him I was in mourning and thanked him for the check. Mr. Sanders yelled at Mr. Malcolm as he was walking down the stairs to the sidewalk. “Sandra will never work for you as long as I am alive to prevent it!” Mrs. Sanders just laughed.
Mr. and Mrs. Sanders were commenting about how cute the inside of my house was. Mom and I never had anyone over. If you walked by the house, you would think it would be a mess on the inside. We just didn’t have the energy to take care of it. We tried our best but it still looked rundown. It was our next project to tackle, we would say.
“Okay Sandra what is your next step?”
“What do you mean?” I had no idea what Mr. Sanders was talking about.
“Can you stay in this house?”
“Yes.”
“Can you afford the payments? Do you have a landlord?”
“Oh, we almost have it paid off. The only thing my mom said that my dad did right beside me.” Just saying those words made me smile for the first time since I found my mom. My mom would give me a hug when we talked about how little we had left to pay off the house. “He had put a large chunk of money down on the house when he moved here. My mom just took over the payments. My mom talked to the bank about it and they took off my dad’s name. We have two payments left and it will be all mine.” I started fiddling with the napkin in my lap. “My mom must have known she was sick because about a year ago she changed the title of the house to my name. She said she didn’t want me to have to worry about having a place to live.” A tear started rolling down my face. “She made me pinky swear that she could live here as long as she wanted when I started asking her about why I have to worry since the house would be hers. She made a joke about it.” I stood up. “Thank you for all that you have done and for all the food you brought me. I don’t know how I will eat it all but knowing me I will give it a good try.” I gave a weak smile, wiped away a tear and excused myself.
When I came out of my room Mrs. Sanders was still in the kitchen organizing the leftovers into storage bags and containers. She must have gone down and got them at the diner. We sat and talked about where I was going from here. Mrs. Sanders made me promise that I would go to the school counselor for help with planning my college career.
It was hard to go back to school after my mother died. Everyone knew, somehow. My teachers were all very nice and lenient. I only missed a week. Instead of getting a job I went back to school because Mrs. Sanders reminded me that my mom always talked about me going to college. I needed to get back to work fulfilling my mother’s dream of me graduating from college.
The counselor looked at my transcripts and was very pleased that I had straight ‘A’s.’ I didn’t like that she made a comment that she was surprised by them even though I had been taking honors courses all four years. Maybe it was because she looked me up and down as she said it. Just because I was poor didn’t mean that I wasn’t smart. She knew my mother had just died and asked who was in charge of me. I wasn’t pleased with how she was talking to me so I might have been a little snippy with her when I told her I was in charge of me. She called a social worker and tomorrow after school I was to meet with her at my house. I wasn’t sure why I needed a social worker: I was eighteen. I got a pamphlet worth of paperwork from the counselor and she thought I had a good chance of getting some scholarships and aid for going to school. She asked where I was going to go to college.
I looked at her like she was crazy. “I am staying in town and going here. Why would I go anywhere else? This university has everything I need and I can live in my house while I go to school?”
She said, “With your situation you probably can go anywhere. Are you sure your dad can’t help you?”
Why did people think I knew my dad or he was anywhere around? Wouldn’t you think I would be telling them I will be moving in with my dad until I graduate from high school?
I was still filling out all the paperwork my counselor gave me when the social worker arrived to interrogate me. Interrogate might be a strong word for what transpired while she was there, nonetheless that was what it felt like. She was surprised that the inside of my house looked way better than the outside. What can I say? I hate yard work! I liked polishing the woodwork because it brought things back to life. Mowing and trimming did not. I would like to paint the house but we didn’t have a ladder to get to the high places. Seriously, all the scraping to get off the peeling paint seemed too daunting. Mom and I would make all these excuses ending with, “we will tackle it next year.” I have learned from her death that putting things off was not always the best plan of tackling unpleasant tasks, though I still did it.
After the social worker looked around the house we sat and talked about my future. Not the distant future but the next few months until I graduate from high school. I was glad I was already eighteen because that kept me from going into foster care. I showed her the few bills I had, our bank account information. She told me that I would get a puny lump sum from the IRS then start to get social security money but she wasn’t sure it would be enough to live on. I saw the concern on her face. It was a little unsettling, nevertheless I thought I had this. When I worked, I got a meal. I got free lunches at school though I knew that would end soon. The more I thought about it I was sure I was going to have no problems.
The life insurance policy would pay for the property taxes and any surprise expenses for at least fifteen years. Looking at the paperwork from the school counselor, I was going to have to work harder on getting scholarships. I had to write five scholarship essays. I was glad I could write about myself but one wanted me to write about if all the people in the world were blue and I was green what would I do. I still used the essay about myself.
Working at the diner would keep me afloat and I always got good tips. The Sanders’ other two waitresses, Judy and Gail, had been at the diner since the beginning. Judy kept saying she should retire and move where her grandkids were living. Her husband passed away about ten years ago. Gail was still married to the same man for almost forty years. They talk about retiring in Florida someday. I hope they made it to retirement because they looked old. I would hear all about her resting bitch face when I would take her shift. People at the dinner didn’t complain much except about Gail. She wasn’t a bad waitress - it was just that she had nothing nice to say to anyone.
Every time I got a scholarship, I would run down to the diner to tell Mr. and Mrs. Sanders. We would add things up on the chalkboard in the kitchen. When my counselor told me how much aid I would be getting because I was low income, Mrs. Sanders put that amount on the board. At the top was the cost to go to the university and we just kept subtracting. The day I got enough money we celebrated with pie a’ la mode. Mrs. Sanders and I made faces when Mr. Sanders wanted his pie with mint chocolate chip ice cream instead of vanilla.
Graduation day came and I didn’t have anyone there to cheer me on. I tried not to cry as I sat down after receiving my diploma. Rose was sitting next to me and she handed me a tissue, “Here, I thought I might cry too. I think I surprised my family that I actually graduated.”
I took the tissue gratefully as the tears couldn’t be stopped. “Thanks,” squeaked out of me.
“What are you going to do now? I haven’t decided. I want to go somewhere other than this stupid town. I might just go to Indianapolis and work in a nice shop so I can get a discount on clothing.” A teacher I didn’t know came over to tell Rose to be quiet. I was glad not to have to answer her. As it was, my classmates weren’t friendly with me and I was afraid to tell Rose I loved our town. I had plans to live out my life here and be buried next to my mom.
I never dated. The curse of being teased during my elementary years continued all the way through high school. The only time a guy was nice to me was when I volunteered to answer a question he had on a paper we were assigned. Sometimes I thought a new guy would ask me out but I was too self-conscious to talk to them. My mom told me to stop worrying about what people thought about me but I had to say it was easier said than done. Judy told me that I should reinvent myself when I started college and put myself out there. I needed to date she would say over and over…again, easier said than done.
Creative writing?
I decided to study creative writing in college. I loved all the books I read and I wanted to transport a child to another world by books like I had been. The problem was I was not a very good writer. I couldn’t come up with ideas unless someone told me what to write about, and it was hard for me to make it to the required number of words or pages. I could talk to strangers but writing about a stranger was difficult. The one thing I learned after halfway through my second year was, I was a very good editor and all the students that sat around me would ask me to check their grammar, tell where they needed to expand on a story or what to cut out. One student told me I should work on the student newspaper.
I still wasn’t dating but a couple times at the diner a guy would flirt with me. Judy said I needed to learn to flirt back. I was nice enough I just needed to toss my hair and compliment the guy. Oh, I was bad at it. I could talk about books I had read but having a meaningful conversation was embarrassing. The first time I tried to flirt I ran back to the kitchen and wouldn’t come out until he left. I tried to flirt into the mirror at home and after five minutes of trying I gave up. I was as red as a tomato and glad my mom wasn’t alive to see how sad her daughter was at flirting.
A middle-aged man came into the diner often and if I had the time I would sit and talk to him about his travels and books about traveling I had read. I knew it wasn’t the same but I desperately wanted to share what I had read. Once he thought my conversation was so interesting, he took the trip I planned for him. I really didn’t plan it for him, it was something I read about and told him if I could, I would do this and this and this. He was having a hard time trying to decide what trip to take. It was between Slovakia and Slovenia and I had read a couple books on Slovenia. I wanted to go to a couple of the caves they have plus a couple of lakes I wanted to see. Two lakes that didn’t allow motorized boats on and I wanted to see the clear water of Bohinj. It was at the base of the mountain Triglav, the symbol of Slovenia.
Glenn came back all excited. “Sandra, thank you for the most interesting trip I have taken. You should be a travel agent.”
Mr. Sanders wasn’t happy with that statement. “Sandra is going to finish college.”
I put my hand on Mr. Sanders’ arm hoping to calm him down. “Yes, I am going to finish college. You don’t have to worry. I just think Glenn is happy that I gave him a great idea. Right Glenn?” I looked at him, willing him to agree with me.
Glenn didn’t want to upset Mr. Sanders any more than I did. “Yes, Sandra is right. Her knowledge of Slovenia was so dead on, even what food to eat. I guess I should have said that Sandra should share with us travelers all her insights to different cultures. Speaking of which, I brought you back a beehive board.”
Glenn handed me a gift-wrapped little package. It was so pretty I didn’t want to destroy the lovely wrapping. “Oh, this is so pretty, do I have to open it?” I said half joking. I really wanted to see the painted board that they put on the beehives but I thought the wrapped package was beautiful.
Glenn was a tad upset, “No, you’d better open it. I want to see your expression when you see the painting.”
I carefully unwrapped the gift and saw the board and smiled. I had no idea what to say. I wanted to say why did you get it for me but instead said, “Thank you very much. You didn’t have to get me a gift.”
“That is you milking the cow. While one guy is saying the cow is mine and pulls the horns, another guy is pulling the tail saying the cow is mine. You are saying I don’t care; I will just milk it. I watch you with the customers fighting over things. Granted you are being nice but they think they are right and you come in and tell them how it is. I saw this and wanted you to have it. Besides, I could get it home without breaking it. I am glad you talked me out of over packing but that didn’t leave me much room for gifts.”
“Did you bring old clothes so you could leave them there?” I told him if he weren’t going anywhere nice, he could bring clothes that should be thrown away and just leave them there so he would have room for souvenirs.
He looked down, “No, I brought new clothes, and I couldn’t part with them. As I was packing to come home, I thought of your words and wished I had taken your advice.”
On my break I looked at his pictures. Oh, how I wish I were the one that took them. Judy and Gail both think he had a crush on me. He always wanted me to wait on him. I thought he was a nice man who liked me as a person. He was over twice my age and I didn’t think I wanted someone that old to date.
“You have some beautiful pictures there.” I handed him back his phone. “You should print a couple of them.”
“You know I almost got you a panel with two women trying to get their legs into a pair of men’s pants. Whoever got them on got to marry him. I didn’t think you were the type who would fight over a man.”
He was looking at his pictures on his phone. I didn’t know what to say. I had no one to fight over. “Yes, that seems silly. I like the one you gave me. It made me feel good when you explained it to me.”
“I wanted to get you a dove that was carved out of one piece of wood with his wings splayed out. I couldn’t figure out how to get it back without breaking the wings off. I stood in front of the man who carved it looking at it and thinking that it is beautiful but how could I get it home.”
“It sounds beautiful. Again, thank you for thinking of me.”
“How is your creative writing class going?”
I was glad he changed the subject. “Oh, I must have forgotten to tell you. I changed my major last semester to journalism. I am the assistant editor. I am better at editing than I am at writing.”
“Don’t sell yourself short. Your paper about the candle wick was good.”
“Thanks, it’s just that it was a short paper. When I have to draft a story, it is like pulling teeth…painful and slow. So far, I am liking journalism. Mrs. Sanders said that it might take me a little time to find my place in this world. Mr. and Mrs. Sanders have faith in me.”
“We all have faith in you Sandra. You are a smart woman. You will find your way soon enough. You take all the time you need to find what you love.” He patted my hand.
I slipped my hand off the table. “I think my break is over. Thank you so much for the bee panel and for letting me see all your pictures. I am glad you had a good time. I would have felt bad if you didn’t like it.”
“I loved it. The country is so beautiful. More than my pictures can convey. I hope you get to go sometime. What new place have you been reading about lately?”
“Have you been to Türkiye? I have been reading about Istanbul and Ephesus. Just yesterday I picked up a book on Greece. You want to talk about beautiful! Hey, I have to go or Judy will be mad at me.”
Maybe Glenn liked me as a daughter he never had. I didn’t know why he hadn’t married. He was pleasant to look at and had a nice personality. I have no idea what a professor in history made but he had money to travel so to me he made enough.
The Newspaper
Working on the newspaper was a little more stressful than I thought it would be. Deadlines were real. I thought getting ready for opening the diner was stressful. They didn’t even compare. I wasn’t sure if I was made to be a journalist because of how they write. It’s like the reporter works harder to write less like I worked harder to write more. I spent too much time writing and putting more information into my stories and the editor, my boss, said we had to cut part of the story. No one seemed happy with my style so I was demoted to just checking the spelling and grammar.
I walked into the diner and Mrs. Sanders knew there was something wrong. It didn’t take long and I confessed that I wasn’t really happy with journalism. Mrs. Sanders called over Mr. Sanders and the three of us sat at a table to discuss what was going on.
“Mr. Sanders,” and he stopped me from going any further.
“Don’t you think it’s about time you call me Bob and you can call her Maureen or Mo for short.” My shoulders just sagged. “We can’t do anything about our names, it’s what our parents gave us.” He smiled a brilliant smile.
“It’s not that. My mom always called you Mr. and Mrs. I think she would want me to respect you and call you by your titles.”
Mr. Sanders elbowed Mrs. Sanders, “Looky here Mo, we have titles.”
“You know what I mean.”
Mrs. Sanders said, “Sweetheart, you show us respect every day and it’s not by calling us Mr. and Mrs. Bob, here is starting to feel old and he feels that the more people that call him mister the older he feels.”
“You feel the same Mo; you can’t deny it. Look Sandra, it’s okay if you call us Mr. and Mrs. or Bob and Maureen. We just worry about you and want you to come to us if you are having trouble. We feel like we are your family. If you want to call us aunt and uncle, we would be happy with that too.” He reached over to pat my hand.
I got a little bit glossy eyed. They were my family. I was lucky that they stepped up when my mom died. I knew I could talk to them about anything. It was nice that they felt the same way. “Thank you for being here for me. I have to tell you that you might get frustrated with me.”
Both of them said “Never,” and each of them grabbed my hand. I shared with them about getting demoted on the newspaper. I felt so lost and they could tell I was getting frustrated. I had a feeling that they were worried that I was close to quitting.
Maureen patted my hand, “Sandra do you know what you want to do with your life?” I had no idea what I wanted. “If you could wave a magic wand and you would have the life you wanted, what would it be?”
I sat back in my chair and fiddled with a hangnail. I thought for a minute trying to block out what was going on around me, with little effort. Bob nudged me with his foot and I smiled. I gazed back and forth between the two of them. “If I could wave a wand first, I would wish my mom back then I would wish to be a writer.”
Maureen said, “Okay, well, the magic wand doesn’t work that well. Think again.”
“I really don’t need to think that much because if I can’t write I want to give kids the experience that I had with the library. I would like to own a bookstore/coffee shop where I could make pastries like you taught me. It would be nice to showcase local writers, too. Do you know where I can get a magic wand?”
They both chuckled. Bob stated, “You should take some management classes to see what it takes to run a business. See if you like it,” tapping me with his foot. “It wouldn’t hurt to try it. I know I make it look so easy but it’s not. You don’t see us upstairs trying to balance the budget, ordering supplies, trying to figure out if we have made a profit and what we are going to fix or update in the coming year.”
Maureen was nodding her head while Bob was talking. “Yes and buying all the aspirin for all our headaches and body aches which are superseding the headaches these days.” It was Bob’s turn to nod his head.
“I will go visit my advisor. Thanks for being such great sounding boards.” I didn’t know if I would have ever thought about trying business classes. I had managed my life from a very young age. This could be my niche. Sad thing was each area that I tried. I thought that one was my niche.
The first classes I took I enjoyed thoroughly. My professor had been in business and wanted a less stressful life so she decided to try teaching. She fell in love with teaching, and she was very good. She made me feel just as important as the other students in the class whose majors were business. She asked for volunteers to work on a project with her. Nobody volunteered and I didn’t know if it was the pressure that no one was raising a hand or I wanted to work on the project with her that made me slide my hand up. “Thank you, Ms. Penny. I appreciate your willingness to collaborate with me. It might lead you to a job down the road.” With that said several more hands went up.
We were working on writing business plans for a couple hand-picked businesses in town. I wanted one to be a bookstore. That would help me down the road more than a nonprofit and a soap store. It was fun and nobody knew me and that didn’t matter to them. I was considered a peer. I was eating up my new area like it was chocolate covered cherries, my favorite candy. I was volunteering to the point that my job at the diner was working before the diner opened, making pastries, then doing the early morning shift. I didn’t mind smelling like the cinnamon rolls but when someone in class asked if I had eaten a pound of bacon for breakfast, I realized that I’d rather work with the customers instead of helping Maureen in the kitchen. Plus, I made a little bit more money with tips if I took orders and poured coffee. I made sure I had time to shower before class if I was working in the kitchen.
I did bring in more customers when I told them I worked at Sanders Diner. My professor Ester would come in and work on her laptop during my shift. The diner wasn’t far from her office and she loved the cinnamon rolls. I gave her a little more icing because she loved it. At first, I could come back to clear her plate and you wouldn’t know she had anything on that plate. She must have taken her finger to get all the icing up.
One day I introduced her to Glenn who was sitting at the next table. He was sitting alone as usual. During my break I sat down at Esther's table and asked Glenn to join us because Ester and I were talking about Slovenia. I found out from her screensaver on her laptop that she had been to Slovenia. She had taken a picture of Lake Bled. I could tell Glenn was eavesdropping, so I asked him to sit with us.
The two of them were enjoying talking about the places that each had been and when they started to talk about different places, I knew I could leave them alone. I wasn’t needed to glue them together; they had the love of a foreign country that took care of it. From then on when one would come into the diner, they would search the tables looking for the other. If one was there a large smile would appear if not you saw the disappointment. Gail said I lost my gravy train. I just thought I connected two people who had a liked interest that they were eager to share with each other. I was not fooling myself. I wasn’t sure if it would lead to a romance but for the time being, they had a new friend. Nobody should be alone.
I know I wasn’t a fan of being alone. When I went home to an empty house, I felt like I was the only person in the world. I haven’t gotten the nerve to ask someone out and no one has asked me out. I had hoped college would be better. The problem was I was inept at making anything but small talk. With my older customers I could carry a little more conversation. They helped because they were very free with their life stories. It was easy to ask them about their family, work or pets and they would carry the conversations.
Management, the Key
I declared my major as management in what should have been my junior year. One day, the diner was pretty empty and I asked Maureen and Bob to sit with me. “I don’t know what to do. I know my mom wanted me to graduate but my scholarships will only last one more year. I would have to dip into my mom’s life insurance policy, and I don’t want to do that. I think I am going to look for a full-time job.”
Maureen was upset, “No you can’t do that. You need to graduate.” She called over Suzanne, who was an academic advisor. “Suzanne, can you pull up Sandra’s transcripts and see if she could graduate next year?”
Suzanne moved things around to see if I could graduate in Business, Business Management or get a general degree. If I got the college of business to adjust my requirements, I could just take a couple classes this summer and graduate with a business degree. I didn’t have to take more classes for a general degree and have a minor in management. I opted for the general degree. If I wanted to or needed to get my masters in business I could do it. I will graduate with honors since I only have one ‘B’ in creative writing. The only reason I let myself get that ‘B’ was I was tired of rewriting my paper. It still haunts me to this day that I didn’t rewrite it.
Suzanne was very impressed with my grades; she tried to get me to stay in college and get my masters. I didn’t know what I wanted to do. Opening a coffee shop and bookstore would take a chunk of money and credit, and I have no credit unless you count my house. I would hate to put my house up for collateral. I would be scared to lose it.
My senior year was a breeze, which made me appreciate that I kept what I thought would be easy classes for my last year. My stress was lessened by being on track to graduate on time. I had started calling the Sanders Aunt Maureen and Uncle Bob. I just had a hard time calling them by their given name. Giving them the titles of aunt and uncle made it easier. A couple of times I slipped and called Aunt Maureen Mom; I was embarrassed. Aunt Maureen came over to give me a hug. “I feel honored that you called me mom. Sometimes I feel like I am standing in for your mom. It makes me feel all warm inside when you slip and call me mom. You know we were never blessed with children, and you are as close as we got.”
I gave her a hug back. “Oh, you are my special mom. You didn’t have to go through the terrible twos with me or the teenage years when my hormones were a little out of whack. You do know that everyone here loves you as a mom, especially me.” We hugged again. I honestly did feel like I was their adopted daughter. They watched out for me, got upset and yelled at me if I (not often,) and most of all I could see they cared about me. At first, when I was feeling like they were my parents I felt melancholy. I thought my mom would have been hurt. I walked around my house talking to her and looking at the three pictures of us together. The more I talked to her, the more I thought my mom would be thrilled to know that someone was looking out for me.
I had so many emotions going through me on graduation day. The Sanders had said they would come to my graduation but I didn’t think they would. I knew they would be busy that day. Why would they take the time to walk over to be bored? I was sad that my mom wasn’t there to see I fulfilled the pinky promise I made to graduate. I was proud of myself because I did it in four years and with honors. My biggest emotions were being scared at what I was going to do next. I didn’t do any internships because I had no idea where I would go. I still had our clunker of a car which I took to the store and back. I didn’t think it could have made it to Indianapolis for three months and if I had gotten the internship, would I have the money to pay for gas? I couldn’t have afforded it.
I was thrilled to see the Sanders up front. They had to get there early to get those seats. They were wonderful stand-ins for parents. They couldn’t be more supportive than biological parents. In the sea of black gowns and hats they found me too.
As Aunt Maureen hugged me, she said “Sandra, do you have any plans now?”
“I was just going home until I had to work.”
Uncle Bob put his arm around my shoulder, “Then you are coming back to the diner with us and having a meal before you have to work.”
“I will go home and change first then I will come over.”
“No, you look so pretty, you will add some class to the diner today. Shoot, we all will add some class to the dinner. I don’t think anyone has seen me in a suit before. I look pretty good don’t you think?” Uncle Bob was pulling on his lapels.
“Oh, Uncle Bob you look so handsome and Aunt Maureen you look so beautiful in that dress. In all these years I don’t think I have seen you in anything but white clothes.” Not to let Uncle Bob get away with making a joke about their uniforms of white pants and shirt I had to add something. “You both look good in white but seeing you in colors is a lovely change.” I had to try to make them feel that they looked good because both of them were fiddling with their clothes.
We were walking over to the diner and I was pleased to see classmates wave or say good luck. I was glad that I was able to say something back instead of just smiling. In reality I thought I didn’t make an impression but I guess I did. I felt pretty good when we got to the diner.
I saw that the lights were off at the diner. I felt bad that the Sanders closed on one of the busiest days of the year? They walked in first and when I walked in the lights went on and a large bunch of people yelled “Surprise.” I was in total shock. After the initial jumping back against the door I bent over in what was half laughing and half crying. All the regulars were there with some spouses thrown in. The place was decorated in my school’s colors. There was a buffet with all kinds of Aunt Maureen’s special treats and sandwiches.
I thought I was hugged by everyone there. I was glad I didn’t wear makeup because it would all have been down my face from all the laughing and crying I did that afternoon. I was dumbfounded by all the people I saw and all the cards I received. I would put them up around the house to remind me that people did like me and I was not alone.
When everyone had left and I was helping clean up the party, Aunt Maureen called me to a table in the back that was all cleared and cleaned. Uncle Bob ushered me back telling me I wasn’t cleaning up the party that was for me. When we were all seated, I could tell that they were a little nervous which made me very nervous. I was afraid they were going to tell me I was fired so I would find my niche in life.
Uncle Bob started, “Have you figured out what you are going to do now that you graduated?”
I couldn’t look at them, “I thought I would work here while I try to figure out what I want to do.” I could tell that they seemed unhappy with my idea. I could be reflecting my own thoughts on them. I couldn’t look at them. I was nervous about what they were going to say and I started sweating down my back, under my arms and between my legs. I wiped my forehead with my sweaty hand.
“Well, your Aunt Maureen and I have a proposition for you.” These words calmed me down instantly. “We would like to retire. Actually, everyone working here, but you, would like to retire.” He gave me a little chuckle. I didn’t understand what was so humorous about that. “We were wondering if you would like the diner?”
I just looked at him in disbelief. “You know I don’t have the money for this place. I don’t think if I kept this place running with a couple workers, I could make the payments and keep this place running.”
“Your Uncle Bob wasn’t clear. We want to give you the diner.”
I looked at them with incredulity. “What! You can’t do that!?!”
Uncle Bob sat up straight and with a broad smile said, “We don’t have children, and we desperately want to retire in a cute little bungalow where we have a yard that we can work in. We thought this would be a perfect swap. You sign over your house to us and we sign over the diner. Upstairs is a nice size two-bedroom apartment. It could be a three bedroom if you clean up the place.”
“Bob, be honest with her. We have put all our energy these last ten years into the diner. We have kept the dinner and the outside of the building looking great. Our apartment upstairs has been a catch all for everything. Now, the basement would have space again if you cleaned it up. To be honest we are a couple of pack rats and everything but the diner is not that nice. We just haven’t had the energy that it would take to clean everything up. The building is in great condition. The basement is dry, which is a huge deal in this area.”
“She is right. I made sure to keep everything that mattered in good condition. Of course, we have paid for the building to be in good condition. I just didn’t want to pay for the rest of it to be in good condition.” I could tell that he was embarrassed with the condition of everything but the diner. I was just as embarrassed about the outside of my place. I really was going to tackle it this year. Without the stress of school, I thought I would have the time and the energy to put into the yard.
“You two know how my yard is not in the best of conditions.” I couldn’t look at them. “What am I saying? The yard is a mess but the inside is clean.” I looked up at them with some excitement which faded fast. “You know this is not an equal swap.”
“We know that but like we said we have no biological children to leave this to.” Uncle Bob patted Aunt Maureen’s hand. “Mo and I think of you as our child.” Then Uncle Bob started patting my hand. “Sweetheart, we are tired of working here and when we saw your place we thought it would be perfect for us. The yard isn’t too big, and the inside is picture perfect. We will still be close enough to you that we can walk over here to have a pastry and coffee while looking at the books.” He shook my hand trying to get my eye to meet his. I just couldn’t believe it. “We want to see you have your dreams while we are still alive. If you need us, we will be here in a minute, too. Though I did promise Mo, here, a vacation to Florida when it gets cold.”
Aunt Maureen had the biggest smile on her face. “We haven’t been on vacation since before you were born. That was when we had all the new plumbing and electrical work done, so we took what little money we had left and went to Tennessee to visit my sister, bless her soul.” I looked at her in disbelief. “That was before she moved back here when her health got bad.” I remember her living upstairs and helping her down and up the stairs when I started working here. It was so sad when she passed because I didn’t know how to comfort Aunt Maureen.
“What do you say? Do we have a deal?” I looked at Uncle Bob with so much uncertainty. I had no clue what to say. “Shall we look at our books so you can see what you are getting into. I know you want to put a bookstore in here too so you will be losing some seating and income. Maybe you can be more creative with the space than we were. Not having a full meal, you might lose some income that way too.” Then he looked at me with uncertainty. “Really, I am not sure what you are going to want to do.”
“Are you sure about all this? I feel like you are losing on this deal. I don’t want to take advantage of you.” It was my turn to pat their hands.
Uncle Bod had the stern look of a father, “We have talked to our lawyer and our financial advisor about all this. Both of them say since we were leaving all this to you, this is better for you. Mo and I think this is best for us. We might be able to live longer without the stress on our bodies. Honestly, we are excited to watch you live your dreams.”
“Almost as excited as if we could watch you go on a date.” I couldn’t believe Aunt Maureen and her worrying about me dating.
“Now, Mo, she might be too busy setting up her new place to date yet.”
“You two are too much.” I smiled at them both.
“Mo is sorry about saying anything about the date thing.” He patted my hand.
I was having a hard time wrapping my head around it. “No, not that. I am talking about giving me this place.”
“Remember dear, we are getting your place.” I looked at Aunt Maureen. She seemed so happy about this arrangement. I looked into Uncle Bob’s eyes next. He, too, looked happy.
“Are you sure?” I looked at both of them with such gratitude and love. I saw it reflected in their eyes.
We looked over their books, seeing them through the eyes of someone who just graduated with a “business” degree. I didn’t care what my diploma said. I thought I had enough credits for a business degree with a minor in management. They told me we would go over the books with their CPA and lawyer on Monday.
When we went upstairs, I saw what they were talking about. It did need some cleaning up. Every decoration from years past was stacked or boxed up there. I thought that was true until we went downstairs, and I saw more boxes of decorations. It made sense why employees were not allowed to go downstairs. I thought the staircase in the front of the diner area would be closed off so I would have more floor space. After going downstairs, I could see that space as extra seating. The ceiling was high so I could see it was usable space. Yes, there was work to do, and I was anxious to get started.
I went home and drew up a plan and started packing. I decided to donate my mom’s things I didn’t want. I had kept all of her belongings, books, and trinkets since her death. I felt like I should keep the little she had. Since I was moving, I thought maybe it was time to get rid of things that I didn’t think I wanted. As for the clothes, I kept the few dresses that I liked. We wore about the same size. I was a little taller than her, but she wore them a little longer than me. My mom dressed like an old maid. All her clothes were baggy, maybe because she didn’t want Mr. Malcom to see her beautiful body. That was beneficial for me because I was bigger all the way around. She had a couple of beautiful classic dresses. The kind that never went out of style. Well, at least in my mind they would never go out of style. I kept all the books that were important to her. She didn’t want to get rid of books for the sake of getting rid of them. I thought I would go down the street to the little library and donate all the paperback books that my mom got at the library on their dollar for a bag of books sale. Our favorite day to go to the library.
I would keep all her trinkets and put them in a shadowbox. If anyone knew us, they would know that it was a pun. Of course, no one really knew us so knowing that she said “she would always be my shadow” would be lost on everyone. She didn’t have many trinkets, so I knew they were important to her. Since it was all I had of her, I thought it was the least I could do to showcase them.
Boxing up the kitchen was easy because it was a waste of money spending on things we didn’t need. All the baking experience I had was baking at the diner. Aunt Maureen taught me, then let me practice at the diner. Spending money on treats was always at the diner. In high school I was making more of the baked goods that the diner offered. I loved making them and Aunt Maureen was happy to hand over the reins to me. When I had to make pastries at five in the morning after studying for an exam until late at night I began to question my love. Seeing people enjoying my baked goods was all it took to know I was doing the right thing. That was when I started practicing new pastries and adding croissants. I started having a following when I perfected them. Uncle Bob had to order boxes then because people would order a dozen or more at a time for meetings or celebrations.
After the meeting with the lawyer and the CPA when we signed all the papers, we went back to my house. I showed them all the essential things people wanted to know, where to turn off the water and the electrical box. Aunt Maureen was looking at all my stuff like she was trying to decide if she was going to make an offer to buy them. “You know what Sandra, your furniture is just as nice as ours. Why don’t we leave our furniture in our respective homes since they fit? We have too much to fit in here and yours wouldn’t have enough for our space.” I could not believe her. My stuff isn’t that great though when I saw theirs, they were probably from the same period. Moving day was a breeze for me because everything fit into my car. It was cool that I had a marked parking space in the parking lot behind the diner. When I got out of my car, I had to touch the sign saying Sanders Diner Owner Space. Yes, I owned Sanders’ Diner.
It was hard to believe that I owned Sanders. Mr. Travis said he would be happy to stay on as my financial advisor. I thought it was interesting that he has two first names, Ralph Travis. I bet there was confusion when he was introduced to people. I knew I was confused. Mr. Jae Kim was another confusing name when I saw it. Mr. Kim said he would be pleased to stay on as my lawyer. Since both of them were in agreement to stay on I was happy I brought along my business plan for my new place. Both of them thought it was a good plan but were worried about how much business I was going to get with taking a third of my floor space for the bookstore. I told them about cleaning out the basement’s front room for customers to go down there to sit. I was making it a self-serve since I didn’t have people working for me yet. They thought I would have to get a loan for buying the books. That part stressed me out. I had never gotten a loan before. Mr. Travis said that I had collateral in the store so there should be no problem in getting a loan.
Since I had the only place where people could get good coffee and a pastry off campus we had a niche. Many people who had gone through the university and stayed in town still came to our side of town to come and get breakfast or lunch. While my aunt and uncle closed at six after they offered a simple menu for dinner and I was forgoing that, I thought I would not stay open that long. Dinner wasn’t a big sell I noticed and thought I could get away with just offering lunch souffles and some kinds of bagel sandwiches. I might add it to the menu later on. I had no idea what my future offerings but at the beginning I thought it would work. I decided I would keep some of the regular items and slowly convert over to what I wanted to do. If my regular customers got upset, I would add stuff back.
I had so much to do cleaning out the basement and apartment I might have to hire someone part-time right away. Aunt Maureen and Uncle Bob would stay on for a month to help out. They wanted to help me succeed. I was very appreciative.
A New Business
I found a large old chalkboard to put the new menu on and some other items upstairs that I wanted to add back into the diner. Going through the boxes was better than any Christmas I had ever had. I was finding all kinds of gems that needed some cleaning up or fixing. It was a big deal going through things, deciding if I wanted them, donated them, try to sell them or throw them away. I had piles everywhere. A couple of times I thought I got the raw end of the deal having to clean out the Sanders’ place then I would see them come in with cuts from all the work they were doing in the yard. We each had our crosses to bear as my mom would say.
I had put an ad in the window for some part-time help. A nice Italian young man who had been going to school at the university needed some work because he didn’t want to tell his parents that he needed more money to live on. He would tell me his family had the money, but they didn’t want him to come to America to study because of all the violence we had here. I couldn’t hire him legally so he begged for the job and would take the cash. He convinced me that neither one of us would get caught. He had been coming in for coffee for a while and made a big deal about how good the Sanders’ coffee was compared to the university coffee. He had helped clear tables for me before he even thought about asking for a job. I knew he was a good worker just observing him when Aunt Maureen and Uncle Bob were running the place. We all commented on how nice he was to help out.
At the end of the month that Aunt Maureen and Uncle Bob had promised me, I hired Vincenzo and was going to pay him under the table as they say. I didn’t know who “they” were but that was my understanding of our situation. Vincenzo would come over when his classes were over and help me. If he had an hour, he would come over to do some dishes. Anytime he would curse the situation he was having with the dishwasher or cleaning up a mess that people left at their table, he would speak Italian. I have too much curiosity and I kept asking him what he was mumbling about. Apparently, I have a good ear for Italian and was picking up the language to the point he decided to teach me.
I loved it when Vincenzo would show up unannounced to help. Anytime that he would show up I was filled with joy. I was only a couple years older than him and treated him like my brother. Ester would try to convince me to ask him out since we got along so well. “I couldn’t date my brother” I would say over and over. He treated me like a sister, too. Teasing me to the point of us both laughing about whatever was going on, mostly about me picking the wrong word in Italian. I was learning so fast that I would get words mixed up. I knew I was mixing words up when he would look at me funny then I knew I needed to find the correct word.
One day he came in and I was so excited to tell him I had dreamt in Italian. He was just as excited as I was. He remembered the day he dreamt in English and there was no one who understood what that meant. He was understanding English enough and he was surrounded with people who spoke English, he watched television in English plus he had to read in English. His teacher who was assigned to him to work on his English was the only one who understood and all she said was she thought he was ready to go to university full-time.
I had been playing Italian music since I had internet. A plus with getting the diner was getting internet because everyone expected it these days. Someday I will celebrate by buying a cellphone. I had a landline phone connected to the internet and was looking forward to making enough money for a cellphone. People were always asking for my cell number and I would have to say sorry, then the dreaded questions would come…why? How can you live without a phone? The other question was would you let me buy you a phone? I knew there would come a day I would get one but for now I didn’t want to spend the money. Some people couldn’t understand why I felt the need to decline their offer when they were offering me a free phone. Until you experience not having much and the joy you get when you buy a new shirt instead of a used shirt, you will never understand.
I had other expenses as it was. I was looking into getting my little bookstore set up. I had contacted all the local authors asking if they wanted to have their books on display here for a small percentage of the cost. It was a good partnership. I was looking at some corporations that would let me have the books on consignment. Vincenzo said he would build me bookshelves if I bought him some wood. I found a couple of people willing to lend me some tools. We had cleared out a section of the basement for his little workshop. He was handy at building things, cleaning and teaching me about all things Italian.
The favorite section I wanted to set up was travel books. I have been using my knowledge of places to visit to further the travel of the people that came to the diner. I was decorating the diner with the trinkets that people brought back for me as a thank you.
The first big item I bought was an “A” to change the name of the diner from Sanders’ to Sandra’s. No one admitted to noticing but I noticed. This place was mine and I wanted to show the world. New people were coming in for my advice on travel, buying books, and my pastries. All were unexpected nevertheless it was exciting to see I had increased my clientele. I was happy my idea of adding books to the diner wasn’t futile. There were still people who liked to hold a book just like me.
I was doing so well that I had the place looking like I wanted, and it only took two years. I still was in debt for some of my travel books. They were the only ones that I actually had to buy but I thought they were some of my best sellers. Everyone wanted me to put out a cookbook because they thought my pastries were amazing. I was glad people stuck with me because after all this time I thought I had finally gotten to where I wanted to be. I agreed with everyone that they were amazing. If they weren’t I wouldn’t have people coming from an hour away to buy my “works of art” as someone told me. I have never admitted to anyone that I thought they were amazing because I was afraid that I would get too full of myself. I probably put ten pounds onto my customers. Half of them admitted that to me then said they didn’t care because my pastries were worth the calories.
I felt like I could take an evening walk around the neighborhood and not feel guilty that I wasn’t working. Aunt Maureen and Uncle Bob were so pleased by my progress and rarely stopped by because it was hard to find a seat, they said. I think they were just enjoying their retirement by traveling and working on their house. They had made the yard come to life with all kinds of flowers and plants. They put a new roof on the house that came out front farther so they could have a porch. That was where I found them these days in the evening if they weren’t traveling.
One day they were so excited to see me. “Sandra, you have to come in to see what we have done lately.” Both of them were talking over each other. They were so animated. I couldn’t wait to see what they had done. I knew that Vincenzo had come over to do some work for them. I noticed the difference right when I walked into the house.
“Oh my gosh, you widened the bedroom!” I couldn’t get over the change.
“Yes, come in and see. Now more than a full-size bed fits in the room. We knew when we saw your room with the single bed, we would never fit it that.” Uncle Bob laughed. “We were so grateful that you didn’t mind us exchanging with one of our full-size beds. We had lived scooting around the bed long enough. Look, we even got a queen bed to fit in here with a dresser. We have a bigger closet. I think Mo is happiest with that change.” Uncle Bob confessed.
Aunt Maureen finally got to talk. She had been about to say something a couple times but Uncle Bob wanted to finish his thoughts. “We haven’t really entertained but thought if we wanted to we should have Vincenzo make us a table with a bench on one side. We thought this size would be enough for us. We just push the table over the bench, so we have more room to walk. That Vincenzo was a real find, he is so handy. Isn’t the table beautiful?”
“Aunt Maureen, it is beautiful.” She was so proud of the table as she ran her hand over the top. You could tell they used nicer wood than the pine we used to build the bookshelves. People always talked about how cool they looked. I knew he had gotten a few jobs from our clientele when they found out that he made them. I knew I was underpaying him but he insisted that he was getting more out of our deal than I was. It was hard to believe he felt that way. We didn’t even keep track of his hours. I just paid him a flat rate every week. Sometimes I got more hours and sometimes less. I insisted he had to keep his grades up. He was thinking about getting his master’s here. I hoped he would, but I didn’t want our connection to influence him. I knew we would keep in touch wherever he landed. He was my best friend and if I was honest with myself, he was my first real friend. I could be myself around him.
I was running my hand over the table and Aunt Maureen took me out of my thoughts. “Are you okay?”
“Yes, I was just thinking that Vincenzo does exquisite work.”
“You always come up with the correct word.” She reached over to give me a sideways hug. Oh, how I miss having those daily hugs. “If you like this table you should see the kitchen table he made. Come.”
We walked into the kitchen and Aunt Maureen had finally painted the kitchen her favorite color…pink. “OMG, he made this table?” It was just an ordinary table that fit perfectly in their kitchen. It was just perfect for two. He had used several kinds of wood and varnish on the wood and it was so shiny you could see yourself in it.
“Yes, Vincenzo is a very talented man. I am sure he told you that his grandfather taught him all he knows.” Uncle Bob sounded proud he knew something about Vincenzo.
“Yes, did he tell you that his parents don’t like that he loves to work with his hands. That is why he is here to get a financial degree so he can take over the business that his father started.” I could tell he didn’t divulge that bit of information to them.
Aunt Maureen put her arm around my shoulder, “Oh, that is so sad. While he worked here, he seemed so happy. It’s a shame you two don’t have something romantic between you.” There she goes again trying to get me to start dating. When the time was right, I would find my person who completes me…one of my favorite movie quotes.
“Oh, Mo how do you know there isn’t something going on between the two of them? They are always together.” Uncle Bob elbowed Aunt Maureen in her ribs and looked at me.
Aunt Maureen pushed his arm away. “Because if you watch them together or when they talk about the other you only see respect. Almost like siblings but better because they admire each other.
“I wish you two wouldn’t get so caught up in my lack of a love life. I promise you there is someone out there that will make me fall in love with him. I am too busy right now to search for him. I am still young; besides if I am not worried about it, you two shouldn’t be. I have a very fulfilling life. Look at me. I am truly happy.”
“We just don’t want you to miss out on being in love.” Uncle Bob put his arm around Aunt Maureen and gave her a squeeze.
We finished the evening on the porch eating a bowl of mint chocolate chip ice cream, talking about their trip to Türkiye next month. I told them about the mosque that Sultan Ahmet I’s mother had built for his brother on the Asian side of Istanbul. I would get them the name of the mosque later. I couldn’t think of it at the moment. It was way smaller than the Blue Mosque nevertheless it was very tastefully done. I knew it was not in the touristy area, but I thought they should see what she built for the lesser of her two sons. Also, they could see how Turkish people truly lived. It is hard to believe that the Blue Mosque was finished just a year before Ahmet’s death at 27.
I got home just before dark. That was something that bothered me about myself. I didn’t like to come into a dark building. I could work all night in the basement, dining area or my apartment but coming off the street in the dark spooked me. I knew I was silly nonetheless it was one of my many flaws.
I had pretty much gone through all the boxes the Sanders left me and labeled the ones I was keeping stored in the basement. Vincenzo and I were ready for people to go downstairs. We had painted the walls a pearl white and had local artists hang their paintings for sale down there. I had had a few books stolen so I thought painting would be a better choice down there and make the room not feel like a dungeon. That was what it looked like when we started cleaning it out. Vincenzo took out the door and opened the walls around the steps so more natural light went down there. I found a good-looking second-hand couch with a couple of overstuffed chairs and some floor lamps to give it a cozier look. We had several dinette tables and a bookshelf full of games and cards that I found at a thrift shop. Down the middle of the room Vincenzo made a long table with benches on each side. Hanging from the ceiling were pendant lights with USB ports so people could charge their phones and computers while working. We were happy with the look. I have to say a few of the paintings I would never buy while others I hoped would never sell. I kind of wanted to put those on the main floor so I could look at them all day.
The Day of Eva
I had put up a sign in the window that I was looking for a part-time worker. I was going to have to pay that person above board unless they were another international student who couldn’t work. The second day the sign was in the window, a beautiful young woman came in the shop looking for a job. I could tell she was hesitant so I thought I would start with a simple question “What is your name?” I hadn’t seen her in here before. I was very good at remembering faces and names.
Quietly she said “Eva.”
“And your last name?”
She started to stammer then said “Sheboygan.”
“Like the city?” I said with a furrowed brow.
She made a face then confessed her last name was, “Stanford.”
“Like the University?” This kid was confusing me.
“No, like the mayor.”
“Oh” I let out the word like air let out of a balloon.
“That’s okay I will leave.”
“Don’t go.” I saw the sadness on Eva’s face.
In rushed Mrs. Miller, my favorite customer who bought at least two books a week. She didn’t like eBooks. She loved the feel of the paper as she turned the pages. She wasn’t a fan of the library because so many of the books had been used and didn’t smell like new, another thing she loved. She would help me unpack books when they came in. Her husband was a fan of my chocolate cherry cookies and every week she took home a dozen for him and snickerdoodles for herself. When I made baklava, she would buy half the sheet to take to her dad and mom plus a section for her son and his family. I had quite the following for my baklava. Once a man from Crete cried right in front of me when he took a bite. He said it tasted like the baklava that his mom made. Every Thursday when I made a sheet, he would be the first in line to buy a couple of pieces.
Mrs. Miller was all abuzz with excitement, she was carrying a bag of groceries. “Oh, Sandra, do I have something for you and me in this bag. Oh, I love it when I confuse you.” She turned to Eva, “Isn’t she adorable when she looks at me like, what’s going on here?” Eva agreed with her though somewhat reluctantly. Anyone would agree with Mrs. Miller because she was always so enthusiastic you couldn’t help but get excited. “I brought you honey from Greece, actually it came from Rhodes. You were so right; Rhodes was worth going to. It was so lovely. It has such a different feel than so many of the other islands we visited.” Again, she turned to Eva who was backing away. “Anyway, I was told that Rhodes honey is the best in the world and she” Mrs. Miller turned and pointed at me “was right. I am spreading the word that if you don’t know where to go just ask Sandra. You should open a travel agency here, too.”
Eva was backing up more and I could see she was leaving. “Please Eva stay and try this honey.”
Mrs. Miller turned to her, “Yes, you should try the world’s best honey.”
“Mrs. Miller, I am sorry you misunderstood me. I said it was considered one of the best affordable honeys in the world. New Zealand has what is considered the best honey in the world.”
“Well, we will just have to see about that on my next trip. Will you help me plan it too?”
“Of course. I have some great travel books on New Zealand, and I can check some travel blogs to find what you and Mr. Miller like to do.”
“I wish you would call us Mike and Donna. Anyway, I have bought you some treats as well plus,” and she pulled out an evil eye that is probably the most beautiful evil eye I have ever seen. Then she pulled out a beautiful ceramic sailboat. “I thought you could hang these because you have had enough evil in your life, and you need all the luck you can get.” She had one in each hand, and she looked back and forth between them and said. “You don’t think these counteract each other, do you?” She looked at Eva then me.
Eva and I both respond “Oh, I wouldn’t think so.” We looked at each other and for the first time I saw Eva smile.
I said, “Do you think we should try some good honey?” I could see that Eva was in for tasting some honey.
I grabbed a couple of bamboo stirrers and one of the jars that Mrs. Miller had pulled out of the bag. “Sandra, I don’t want you to be hurt that I am asking you to make a baklava with this honey for my family.” She held up the other jar.
“Don’t be silly, my mind is already going through what I should bake with this. I thought I could make my baklava and my honey cake. Oh, I have been wanting to try this honey spiced bread that is more like a cake. Now, I have some honey to experiment with. I will make sure you get some of the bread too.”
Eva was about to leave with Mrs. Miller. I stopped her and asked her to sit down with me. Eva had been trying to get a job for a couple of months, and no one would hire her when she told them her last name. The mayor hadn’t been popular since he was elected. In three years, he did nothing for the citizens, just did things for his friends and family, which was a huge amount. He was being investigated for some wrongdoing.
Vincenzo was handling the few customers in the shop so we had time to chat. Come to find out Eva loved books but was worried about serving people. No, she didn’t have a problem serving people, she was worried that when people found out her name, they would not want her to wait on them. I told her hardly anyone would ask your last name.
Sandra looked at Eva, “How about you go without makeup, pull back your hair and braid it so it hides your curls. I bet no one would recognize you.” Eva seemed thrilled. I took pity on her and hoped I hadn’t made a mistake. I knew what it was like to be judged without people knowing who I really was. I wanted to give her a chance.